The first step to being a great person is to recognise that you are making hundreds of decisions every waking day.
What you wear. What you eat. Who you associate with. What to say. How you say it. What to read. What to watch. When to sleep. When to wake, what you do on waking etc..
Under each one of these decisions is a branch network of smaller decisions of how’s, why’s, who’s, when’s, and where’s.
Every decision shapes your daily thoughts and feelings, which over time shapes your personality. Every decision counts.
Spontaneity is overrated.